My fiancé and I have been together for two years, dated for about 6 months and engaged since. Currently we have a 5 week old son together. I recently found out that when I was 8 months pregnant my fiancé started sexting another girl and trying to sleep with a few others. The only reason it didn't get more physical was because they all turned him down. I know the only reason I didn't throw him out was because of our son but I'm tired of feeling like shit. Should we try to work it out or will he just do it again? He has the mentality that he can do better so I worry it'll just happen again. I love him, and he's my best friend but I don't feel like I can trust him anymore. Since finding this out I went to the bars one night while the kiddo was home with his dad and a few guys bought me drinks and I was actually able to have a good time, now I'm thinking that I'm the one that can do better, not him. What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
I have this belief that if you have a kid already with the guy you're "engaged"and not even married yet, it's just a matter of time before things end. Women need to realize that if you are not married yet, you should not be having kids beforehand and even by having a kid that does not guarantee he will stay with you.0
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Most Helpful Girl
You both have been together 'For two years' and hopefully counting here, dear, and with a '5week old son together,' who never askrd to be born, he doesn't deserve this sticky situation at ahnd, because his dad cannot be trusted and Now... I was actually able to have a good time.
This is going to definitely escalate into a bad boy and girl problem path problem if something isn't done so you both can Try and attempt to end the War of the Roses.
He is young, may be feeling trapped in this relationship and is finding himself in a rut right now. You, on the other hand, are finding out that two can play at this game the same, and in doing so, there is more on the other side of the fence than just this bull crap.
I do not blame you for feeling this way. However, you both have someone else you need to think about right now, and it isn't yourselves.
Sit down and have a long serious talk. Decide what it is that is best for each other, the babes in Toyland and don't continue down this by beating around the bough break bush. It's not fair to anyone and nothing is ever accomplished by making two wrongs a Right, day or night.
Good luck. xx0