He dates younger because he does not want to get married and have kids, where most women his age would. He is very superficial when it comes to appearance (mainly body image) and is constantly trying to make me look like Miranda Kerr when I have the figure of someone like Beyoncé or JLO (big bubble butt, thicker legs and small waist, small boobs), I will never be as skinny as a VS model. My shape won’t allow it. This makes me feel shitty about myself all the time, and that no matter what I won’t be good enough for him to call “sexy” like he does with every other girl he finds attractive.
I guess what I am asking is for you guys to share your serious break up stories, how you got over them, and if you found someone new afterwards. Thanks so much to all who reply!
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Listen, listen Missy. You are way to young to settle down with a man that's 35. He seems like an immature man and you should not be with him. 1st- he should not want you to be someone else or look like someone else if he did he should of never went into a relationship with you. 2nd- staying with him will only hurt you emotionally. You will start to resent him but will find it difficult to walk away. It will only hurt yoy in the long run.
It does seem that you may be insecure because of him and you are also comfortable. Break out of that comfortable Ness because I can promise you there will be better. Make sure you leave and never look back. Guard your heart before getting into another relationship.
My ex was almost the same. I was depressed in the relationship. I went from being confident with a bueatiful body to someone that was no longer happy and gain weight tremendously. I decided that he isn't for me never was and never will be. Because if he loved me or cared for me he would not do and say those mean things. Honestly, it is hard to walk away but you have to make a decision to walk away and stick to it. Time will make things easier.