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You're family shouldn't be so pushy about the subject and should support whichever move you decide to do. I think you guys need to have one of those "what are we looking for down the road" talks and see if you guys can work together to find something that will make you both happy. If there's just things where one of you is going to be miserable then you guys should talk about your options (that includes breaking up). You have every right to not want a kid just like he has every right to desire one. You both need to do what is best for each of you. If he's not happy with adopting and wants his own flesh and blood child then you guys may want to go your separate ways.