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Shitty. Break-ups can be emotionally devastating. The chemicals involved in the brain that form attachment can pose very big problems when ending a relationship, and can cause very real physical pain on top of all of the emotional crap that goes along with it.
I don't just 'do' someone based on looks, nor do I just date them based on looks. If I can't have a good conversation with someone, I have no interest in them. It's just how my brain works. That being said, there is nothing about your physical appearance that would make me not want to take the chance to get to know you well enough to put sex or a relationship on the table. You're very attractive, according to a low res face-only image anyway. It would be hard to tell personality wise right now because you will be in a lot of pain and definitely not at your best, so it would be a little unfair to try and make those kinds of 'are you dateable' assumptions at this point.
Part of it is that you shouldn't be needing to find this kind of validation from external sources. I mean, I get that you are hurting and feeling personally rejected, but you were not a good or bad person because of your previous relationship, and you are not going to be a good or bad person based on the opinions of a couple of strangers on your physical appearance. To be honest, you should be looking for a supportive shoulder right now, not a confidence boost. You want someone that will help you get through the emotional turmoil you are going through, and about to be going through, not just find someone who will bang you to make you forget for a few hours.
Sorry you are going through this. Hope you find the support you need.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE