My boyfriend broke up with me shortly after I had a miscarriage after him having a change of heart about relationship. Now I have found out that he's thinking about getting back with his ex and is trying to be mates with me. He told me after break up that he still has such strong feelings for me, but can't be together right now so wants friendship. I'm really confused by him and surely you can't go from relationship to friends straight away?
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People can but usually it's because the relationship faded away, not something like what you had go down. I'd say walk away from it completely, a LOT less hassle in the long run for you.
Just my point of view but what I'm taking from what you have said is that he wants to see where it goes with his ex and if that doesn't work he may come back to you.
As for friends, that's up to you but I'm pretty sure neither of you have "just friends" feelings for each other so why pretend like you two can be? Cut your losses and get on with life, probably not the answer you'd like to hear but it is what it is.