Hi, so yesterday my ex boyfriend who wanted to have a break from me 2 weeks ago and I had dinner. He asked to meet up and he texted me a lot before so I said okay why not we can have dinner , we are on good terms. Our dinner was amazing we had good food, we talked a lot and laughed he even called me babe , it was like the old times. Now comes the disaster , when we get the bill I say lets split it and I said to him I'm sorry but my mom ( her card) won't pay for you ( obviously she won't pay for the guy who broke up with her daughter ) , he said he didn't have any cash and very little on his card. I said fine I'll pay for both just pay me later. We went out and he was totally quiet and I said what's wrong he said " you embarrased me in the restaurant" then I was in heels he just didn't wait for me he walked away I run after him and say " I'm sorry if I embarrased you but it's not a big deal lets forget about it and be good again" I aplogise like so many times. When we get home I say hey you wanted us to be good and he says obviously we can't be friends anymore and then he says bye and leaves me in the dark to go home all by myself crying cause I'm so hurt. His dad later said to me that his intentions was getting back together with me but he is very money sensitive, what? My question is how can a guy become so angry at that he doesn't want to talk to me , I sent him a text he just read it ( I apologized for the thing again and I was mature about saying it's better to have good chemistry than bad). I'm confused we were so good even flirting during the dinner like perfect then later he says he's so upset he says there's no point in being friends ( even tho he said it was super important for him that I stay close to his life and that we don't become this arguing break up couple ) and then his dad said he wants to be back with me? Basically he wanted to end the realtionship cause he feared things would go very wrong although they weren't but now he's create this barrier and now we have problems. I need help (btw he's very lost with his life he doesn't know what to do ) carrier wise
I don't understand anything anymore , why did he act like this?
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he's very emotional and sensitive. You have every right to say what you said, my mom wouldn't pay for the guy who broke up with me, who would? He needs to understand that. And if he had money problems he should have thought about that before going to the restaurant, is he using you for money or something?
Its not worth it hun. The break up happened for a reason and getting back with an ex is nothing but problems, itll get better for you in time once you move forward, focus on yourself, love yourself. In my opinion, getting back with an ex is like taking a nice hot shower, getting out, and then putting on your old dirty clothes.1
This seems a lot like my old relationship. You love him and he seems to love you but when a man is lost he will ruin you and every aspect of you. The reason why is because he has a low self esteem. Remember a lot of men were brought up to be bread winners but that doesn't always happen. And when they're not the bread winners they become even more insecure. Let him grow as a man and give him some time. As of now all you can do is give him some space and once he decides to get back on speaking terms you should try to help him find who he is without losing yourself. If that's not possible, than let him go because your sanity is what matters.0
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