I think this is why it's so important to go NC... because after you just got dumped (I'm not sure if the dumper thinks these things out) but it's like everything your ex does/says.. it's like you start thinking if it's mind games or not... I think we play mind games with ourselves when it comes to an ex... I mean if you just got broken up with.. you probably still want to kiss your ex, dance with your ex, etc.. and then you wonder.. now who is kissing them, dancing with them, etc... it's all so eh
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You're right. No contact is the smart person's way of dealing with a break up. It simply is. It's also the more mature option and makes things a lot easier in the long run.
Someone just dumped. Meaning they don't want you. Why the hell would you want to give that other person any minute of your time if they decided "no thanks" when looking at you. That's how I feel. So no I don't play games. When my ex dumped me a month ago I blocked him and initiated NC. It has helped me tons so far.0