I usually am perfectly ok with it but I've had to see them a lot lately (we all go to school together). He's with her 24/7 he basically lives with her, he lets her post lovey dovey pictures of them together, he says he's in love with her (he only ever told me he loved me twice the whole time we were together), he holds her hand and kisses her in public. These were things I begged him to give me but he never did and he told me I was asking for too much because that's not his personality. It still hurts a lot when I am faced with it and can't just ignore it like I can when I don't see them. I still don't understand why he treats her so much better than he treated me. I want to confront him but I don't want him to see that he still has any power over me. How do I just accept it and move on? It still really hurts.
Most Helpful Guy
Sorry to sound harsh, but he simply loves her more than he loved you. She most likely brings something to his life that you didn't. She completes him more than you did.
It is what it is, you can't have any effect on that.
Try to be around friends more often, to keep those thoughts away. Try keeping yourself busy. Or better yet, talk to both of them like they were friends. Don't talk to him about this, it will make it worse, just face it. You fight your fear by facing it, and even though this isn't a fear, it's still the best way to get over this.0
Most Helpful Girl
dont think about it!0