This past weekend, i found out through a drunken situation, in which my bf's brother's ex came over and started to cause trouble for everyone in the house at the time; she was yelling and calling everyone down, and even said to me "i'm so glad he cheated on you w/ one of my friends!" etc etc... So naturally i was upset and asked him what the F she was talking about, and he told me it was before we got back together. So during our break up i guess. But I don't know why it still bugs me...
Most Helpful Guy
Of course you shouldn't care and you already know that. You are letting a drunk cunt pick at your ego as though she were someone important to you.1
Most Helpful Girl
I could say, "he was single it shouldn't matter" which technically is true.
However, had you known this before getting back together it could have altered that decision.
So now, it's on you what to do..
If you can look past it then it has to be dropped. No throwing it in his face, no freaking out every time you get insecure.
If you can't look past it then let him go or your insecurities and loss In trust will spread in your relationship like a poison.