I broke up with my ex 2 months ago, and now that university has started and we have gone our separate ways. I tried contacting her to give her back her valuables that she left behind. things i know she cares about, however she has just ignored me. her friends don't want to get involved even to just pass on the bag.
our break up was bad, it ended with the police taking her out of my apartment. although every person i know has advised me to avoid this manipulative cruel ex girlfriend, that cheated, lied, stole from me for whatever reason, and i lost so many friends just by being with her... I still care for some stupid reason, I think I always will, and I would like to give her back her valuables.
the only thing holding me back is the idea that I am playing into her ploy. we have broke up many times in the past and i think she gets how to deal with me.
- Find a way to talk to her and give her her thingsVote A
- Ignore her, give away to her receptionist or throw her things outVote B
- do nothing-its a trapVote C
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It's over here, dear. Let sleeping dogs lie now. It was Indeed a 'Bad breakup,' that i feel cannot be fixed again, my friend.
She may not even care about these things with the past that was no blast. They are in your place, they may bring back bad memories, so either throw them out Or.. Give them to good will.
Don't put yourself in the doghouse by going on with this boner.. She has barked up the wrong tree and when the cops took her out of your place and Your... Life with strife.
Good luck. xx0