I found out that my boyfriend had been cheating on me this weekend. He won't admit to it but it was confirmed. He tried blaming me for everything and still blames me for everthing and will not take accountability for his actions. I broke up with him moved out yesterday. He still has not tried to contact me or anything. It has been 2 days
I dont know why i'm hurt by this but I thought he loved me and would feel bad and try to fight for me.
Most Helpful Guy
well he probably does feel bad but he's clearly in denial (thus the blaming you)... I've been cheated on twice. it sucks. but don't sit around waiting for apologies or for him to come and have his mea culpa moment. If it happens that's nice but for your sake you just need to move on asap...1
Most Helpful Girl
So I know ho you feel, this happened to my three years ago with my boyfriend. But the way it happened with him, there was NO way he could deny it because there was a photo of it on facebook. but he still blamed me for everything. He probably feels guilty, I wish I could tell you oh you'll be fine... I'm sorry but you're not going to be fine. I stayed with him for another year and five months after that incident and things only got worse, do i regret staying with him after everything? nope, because it's what i wanted to do at the time and nothing and no one could have stopped me. The things I went through with him still affect me to this day, the last time i saw him was September 2013. I'm over him but I'm not over all that I went through, how worthless I felt, how unimportant I felt. Like I was nothing to him, it affects my dating life right now because i dont see myself as deserving of anything. I believe that men don't ever see me as the girl they want to date or marry, they only see me as the girl to maybe fool around with and fuck because he put these thoughts in my head.1