I have a boyfriend who constantly flirts with other girls, and it hurts me a lot, I even cry sometimes, but i am afraid to tell him to stop because i dont want to break up with him. He calls me boring and I dont think he loves meh. I need help what should i do? Is it normal for all boys to do this? I'm not ususally the jealous type of person, but i feel like he is doing this on purpose, he says in front of me this girl is hot and sexy or whatever he tries to make me jealous, but he doesn't know that he hurts me a lot. I try not to show it or talk about it. I really dont want to break with him, but Im sure that i am supposed to be happy, but im not hapy with him even though i love him I don't know what to do please help. Thank You!
- Break UpVote A
- Go alongVote B
- Pretend I dont careVote C
- Try to fix itVote D
- Tell him it bothers meVote E
Most Helpful Guy
One of my x's used to try making me jealous all the time by talking about guys at her work etc, and it worked at first but it backfired on her in the end because I had got enough of it and let her go. As for your situation I don't think he's trying to make you jealous. Some guys want to be a ladies man and some feel the need to be liked by every girl they see I've seen it myself. You have a few approaches or of ways to look at it. One, he's with you not with them if you want to look at it that way. Two, get vocal with him and put your foot down and do it on the fly when he's macing on those other girls right there and then let him know in front of them. Or lastly, just let him go his way. Myself I haven't been with anyone or dated in many many years. But the way I look at it jealously hurts you not the one trying to make you jealous. My way of thinking is if she in my case wants to be with someone else the door is open. If she wants to be with me that's ok too. Myself I wouldn't let it bother me and if it did I'd do like I said and lay it down right in front of your man and his mac when he's macking.2
Most Helpful Girl
#generalisation263 SOME boys do this because they simply can't keep their damn eyes and desires contained into one woman.
I had an ex like that and i hated him for it. Id just switch off when id notice that he wouldn't even be paying attention to me.
We gotta remember that guys r gonna check women out, and i guess thats ok, but when he's being such a dick that it almost looks perverted, there's an issue there. Confront him about i and hopefully he'll get the message.4
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