I have a boyfriend who constantly flirts with other girls, and it hurts me a lot, I even cry sometimes, but i am afraid to tell him to stop because i dont want to break up with him. He calls me boring and I dont think he loves meh. I need help what should i do? Is it normal for all boys to do this? I'm not ususally the jealous type of person, but i feel like he is doing this on purpose, he says in front of me this girl is hot and sexy or whatever he tries to make me jealous, but he doesn't know that he hurts me a lot. I try not to show it or talk about it. I really dont want to break with him, but Im sure that i am supposed to be happy, but im not hapy with him even though i love him I don't know what to do please help. Thank You!
- Break UpVote A
- Go alongVote B
- Pretend I dont careVote C
- Try to fix itVote D
- Tell him it bothers meVote E
Most Helpful Guy
I'm not Gods gift to women but every day i see women flirt with me that have just kissed their boyfriend, are walking hand in hand with him or are hugging him. That does not mean I can take her from him. It does not even mean she likes me more than him.
To put it bluntly both sexes do this (even you perhaps). It's just life so you just gonna have to live with it.
Now I do find the way he is doing it too disrespectful and too asshole like. I say he is wrong in that. But you are wrong when you wrote "I try not to show it or talk about it".
So from now on anything... and I mean ANYTHING that bothers you you just talk about it... with the person that you have a problem with. Just say "Hey, I want to let you know that... bothers me" Do not hint it because that will never work. Use exactly those words. Because he may not know he is doing it. He may not know that it is bothering you. He may not realise he is being an asshole.
If not you may end up leaving him while it was something that could be fixed. Or if you stay with him he and yourself keep hurting you again and again.
I'll bet by now you think "He should have known it would hurt me". BUt stop thinking that... Talk to him.4THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Ego. Narcissism. They miss the flattery of feeling wanted or they just think flirting is fun. Regardless it's very disrespectful and inappropriate. Especially considering how many hoes there are out there and how they will eagerly try to turn harmless flirting into something totally emotionally harmful.
Leave him and find a guy who will respect your feelings and not make you feel uncomfortable so he can flirt. There are guys out there who will take better care of your heart.10THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE