Guys, should I give him another chance?
What Guys Said 1
"One day I found out his girlfriend worked there bc she came to spy on me."
^how did she realise u had a crush on him then?
"She was starring at me up & down. Later on I found out she was stalking me bc her boyfriend (my crush] told her he liked me. "
^huh? sounds like they r being more just friends than a couple if he's tellin her such things then...
"That same day I saw them together & they didn't smile at each other or even kissed."
^sounds like they don't get along very well maybe then...
"My co worker saw the attraction we had towards each other and got me his number. I texted him and from there on we were inseparable. "
^i see... so u asked yer co-worker to give him/her his #? or he/she decided to do it on his/her own?
"Long story short, he left her and started dating me. "
^so i assumed right when i said they don't get along then...
"Everything was great until I found out he was still talking to her. "
^they could talk just as friends and nothing more though...
" The next day I called him and asked him back out he said NO! I was confused a few hours ago he was begging me not to break up w/him and now he's telling me he has never loved me as much as he loves his ex? "
^guess it was a sudden crush of him dat he slowly started to fade away maybe? ;)
"Went to see him to talk face to face, saw his phone & I found out he wasn't over her."
^for how long he's been wid his X then? if they've been for a long time... well then consider chances r higher they r gonna get back together then... ;)
" When I turned it back on he keeped begging me back. All of the sudden I replied back, he tells me he's depressed and wants to kill himself. "
^i don't think he's sayin such a thing in order to sympathize him or anything... but i believe he's really being confused about who to go back to or not...
"Then I got scared, sent him mass messages. He straight up ignored me!"
^or he might wasn't in da mood to reply maybe?
"Then I see he posted a funny video om Snapchat. I don't get it. "
^i see... guess he posted such a video in order to lift his mood somehow maybe...
"What do you guys think is going through his head? Should I take him back? Is he a player?"
^i believe he likes u both... but first his X... then u...
and nope... as long as u don't have clear answers comin from him... then u shouldn't take him back... ;)
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