Most Helpful Girl
best way (I am a text addict too so its tough) is to write down her number and put it somewhere way out of the way to get. then delete her number and when you feel the urge to text, you will have the time to stop yourself from doing it in the time it takes to find her number.
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Most Helpful Guy
i know what you are going through, i have the same problem, but im trying to maintain composure. Today my ex girlfriend and i texted a bit , she texted me around 13:45 today, i had to wait for a reply for almost 4 hours. I haven't replied to her last text, not because i dont want to, but because i dont want to act needy and desperate. I will reply to her when im done working. that way she knows i haven't forgotten about her text, im the last thing on her mind before she goes to bed, or she reads my message somewhere during the night. i do want to see her this Friday she has been asking me to meet up, so yes i do want to see her, but i want it to be mainly or her initiative, she dumped me, i didn't dump her. like me just talk to people, and read the internet. you should find a healthy balance between contacting her and keeping your distance. i did a lot of stuff for my girlfriend, and i really sincerely interacted with her daughter. maybe she will notice this when its gone, i try to look the best i can Friday, new clothes, fresch haircut, good smell etc.. then i just see what she has to say. if she says, i just want to be friends, i ask her what she expects from my friendship, because im not like any of her friends, im responsible , and i respect her.