He's 29, I'm 26. This has been "up and down" since July then it came to halt (by myself) when he flaked on me a bit too much!
He admitted he had just got out of a long term relationship, had been hurt etc.. He pursued me again and again, saying we should give things another g, he said he was in a better place (she was his finance I found out on facebook) we met up a few times, it went well.
He's like give me another try I'll promise "this & that" - he went on holiday with fam last week, texting me all the time. Counting days to see me. Said we auks be more like boyfriend & girlfriend when he returns..
Had last weekend together. Then Sunday he went a bit MIA just little lies showing up, not making sense on reflection :(
- cancelled Last nights date (no re arrange) just told me to tell him when I'm free no call sorry etc
- Said he's busy this Saturday & Sunday thought I hadn't asked, he didn't say why
- Sound he still has a lot of pics of his fiancé on his fb page last night.. So does she.
why has he even bothered with me?
I'm calling him after he finishes work - saying I can't continue anything!
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It sounds too messy. I'd let go. He doesn't seem over her. I don't see it ending well. He's halfway in and halfway stick with his fiance. You deserve better.