i said something one weekend out fear, and thoughtlessness. i said something i didn't mean, and blamed him for how i was feeling. i told him that it might be time i let him go, and that it was his right to date others. apparently my over thinking, and this back and forth (saying something, and taking it back) was drama. anyway, I told him that i'd give him as much space as he needed.. i said to him "how about i call/text once a week, simple enough?" and he responded "how about we not set limits, keep it simple" then i told him that i missed him a few days later, no repsonse. we've only known each other for about 4 months, and didn't see each other all that much, hardly at all. but he was always texting me throughout the day, or call me most nights. i started doubting his feelings for me, which lead me to overthink, and the whole negative thoughts started happening. i was afraid of losing him, then i lost him. anyway, it's been a few months now, and i still have not heard from him, he doesn't respond to my text i send here and there. i went no contact twice. i tried calling and nothing. i made an attempt to message him on whatsapp, and then i get blocked (first time messaging him on there) i just don't get it. what happened? things were so great with us, it was going well. but out of my own fear, and being scared of my feelings, i wanted to run so i don't get hurt. i tried to distance myself once and he pulled me back as i told him i was getting more attached to him every day. he talked me out of it. then after spending a wonderful day with him on a road trip, i came home and told him i'm taking a vacation from him. he said "again?" i said "what do you mean again? i havne't taken any yet" he responded "you keep trying..." at first, i thought he was just telling me to keep trying. i realized he wasn't telling me, he was saying it in a way that seems to mean i keep trying to get away from him. i also told him that i needed to be more seletive of who i let in. huge mi
Most Helpful Guy
well i've been there, fear of losing her made so desperate to be with her, she never saw how much i valued her and how much i care about her but she saw only her friends , her life and just her point of view, i think i realized that the person once i knew was not in her anymore and i am hurting myself hanging on to them and so i moved on , never had chance to say goodbye to her, coz i didn't know the last time i saw her will be the last time i will see her around and even at the time i tired to help her with something she couldn't by herself, that's fate and you can't change it and have to accept it0
Most Helpful Girl
If you are contacting him, it means your not applying the no contact. You need to stick to it and see if he makes a move. If you keep chasing him, you're shooting yourself in the foot.
So if you want him back, do the opposite: don't initiate contact. If he texts back, don't answer all his texts, and when you answer wait a little so he wonders " why the hell she's not responding? she does not care? I thought I had her in my pocket so easily".
Look up coach corey wayne on youtube he helped me a lot since I was dumped PLUS a rebound. And now we are sort of starting something new..0