Most Helpful Guy
You AREN'T ready for change.
Take time away from him. And by time, I mean several months. Think of some areas for self-improvement, then write down goals and actually better yourself.
Once you've actually made changes and are actually past the breakup, then you can resume contact. Because if you get back together now, nothing will have changed, and you'll break up again. Guaranteed.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
First, ask him if there is ever a chance you will get back together.
If he says yes, ensure it's not just to keep you "on the loop" and that he actually means it, you don't want to be hanging around forever. Wait a month tops and then move onto next advise.
If he says no, stop hanging out with him. You will never get over him while you see him or talk to him everyday. This just keeps you thinking about him and aware of him. If it's not going to work out, you need to move on and there is no way you can move on while still being friends or talking to him.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE