She he wanted to earn my trust back she says she even told me to go through her stuff if I need to so I can see she is being faithful. She told me she doesn't like when someone goes through her stuff but she understands the situation.
Last week I checked her email and saw she forwArded a picture of her ex the first guy she cheated with to another email address... It upset me and reminded me of all the pain I went through and made me worry she is seeing him again so I questioned her... She said that pic was in a group of other pictures and she can't delete it without deleting the others so she didn't want to touch it. The picture was in her gmail account.
Then she flipped and said it was pretty shitty that I went through her email and I reminded her we agreed to allow me to have access since she cheated and her reply was she meant her phone not her email... She she broke it off with me saying she doesn't want to be in a relationship were she has to be questioned all the time and her privacy invaded... And she was serious she doesn't text me anymore and I won't text her I feel like I didn't do anything wrong and she cheated I don't trust her already why should I chase her?
Does anyone feel she has the right to take back what we agreed?
Most Helpful Girl
Nope. She should realize that with her history, cheating compounded by more cheating, you have a right to be skeptical about her faithfulness. And if she didn't like it, she shouldn't have offered up the option to go through her stuff. Actually, she shouldn't have cheated but that's none of my business. But no, she can't rescind her offer just because she feels like an appropriate amount of time has passed. I think that would be up to you to decide when you feel you can trust her again. And if she doesn't feel comfortable being regarded like a cheater, then you're probably better off without her.
Most Helpful Guy
You need a kick in the ass, you forgave her for cheating once. Than you catch her again, and forgave her again.
So you were really surprised, that she cheated again?
Your being played, she now knows that she has you by the balls and that no matter how many times she cheats. You will forgive her, and take her back.
Have some self love and respect for yourself, and walk away and find someone that respects you. Because the girl you are with, does not care for or respect you.
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