It honestly makes no sense to me. I know I am not perfect by anyways, no one is, but I tried so hard. I feel like my efforts never amount to anything for this guy. We dated for nine months. He literally made it his goal to get me to open up to him. Well i did but then he wouldn't do the same for me... I know i am an idiot for this next part but he dumped me four times. I took him back everytime. Now its been two months since we broke up and I allowed him to borrow a large sum of money. I feel so hurt and used. I am pissed yet sad. I was nothing but good to this guy. I would go out of my way for him all the time but he always seemed to blame me for everything and made me feel like i am a bad person. I just dont understand what the hell is wrong with people anymore. Having a good heart is the most useless virture I have and I am sick of it. I just want to understand why people just think its okay to hurt people to the point they will honestly never be the same afterwards. Sorry the rant, i just seriously pissed and hurt.
Most Helpful Guy
That may be one of the shittiest situations I have seen on here. I don’t think it is about gender at all. I have known girls that do the same thing. It sounds more like you are the type of person that is so incredibly sweet that you will do whatever you can for the people in your life. My brother is like that too and every once in a while it puts him in a crappy situation but never as bad as yours. Don’t get me wrong it is not a weakness I think the fact that you can stay true to yourself despite having assholes in your life is admirable. And because of that your true friends I am sure love you dearly.
It is totally justifiable to be pissed off. If you want me to go kick the guys as I will.1
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Most Helpful Girl
Guys complain that they can't find a good and faithful woman but when they do find one they end up doing her wrong. Men are hypocrites I swear1