The reason for the breakup was because we were long distance though I did make an effort to visit her multiple times a month. We were 4 hours apart. I knew her when I went to school with her, but then I had to move and then that's when we started to fall for each other.
I'm 20 and she's 18. She said I was husband material.. She's a mature and smart girl so don't say she's ahead of herself. She was my first love and I was hers.
Whats hard is that she is now in college and dating her best friend. He doesn't love her as much as I do and doesn't treat her like I did. She calls it "a friendship relationship".. Whatever that means. I'm a romantic and sweet guy so I guess there's a difference? Anyway, Her friends and my friends told me that he is a downgrade from me. I'd say jealousy is a factor for me and I hate it.
She was my first girlfriend and first love. We dated for a year and 4 months. It was great, but now I can't get her off my mind... Still. Ugh. I still think of her often and I don't know what to do. We are kind of friends.. We don't talk much anyway.
My question here is that I don't know what to do. I know you might say to date other girls, but I'm extremely picky and want a girl that suits me well. I don't date just to date. I DO NOT want her out of my life. She's basically a girl form of me. I'm not stuck on the fact that she's the only one for me.. I know there are other girls out there, but after 20 years, she is the only girl that I have come across and truly loved.
So now that you know all of this, can you please give advice as to what to do to: overcome jealousy, miss her less, and basically what steps to take in the near future and further.
Thank you so much for reading and God Bless.
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Bro I'm sorry you're feelin this way. Reading that was almost like my own story. I too lost my first and only love a few months ago and still love her like crazy. I would start throwing up from thinking about how it's over now. It's no good and I feel for you. If your plan is to move on then I recommend deleting and getting rid of every single thing that can remind you of her. It'll hurt but you'll feel relief after. Then it's just a matter of seeing where god takes you. Stay strong and good luck. Pray a lot1