I was seeing a guy for 6 months. He treated me well and vice versa; dates, constant communication, and respect. We were intimate after 5 months and it was one time only. After sleeping together he didn't treat me any different and things were ok.
What bothered me is that I asked him a few weeks ago how he felt about us and we agreed we werent seeing others, love each other, etc. He was so uncomfy discussing feelings but I wanted to talk bc I'm at the point where I'm ready to be in a relationship w him. I got tired of him putting it off so I told him let me know NOW so I can either stay or move on. (This was over the phone)
Was I too pushy or desperate? I just didn't want to get hurt or strung along and I feel like 6 months is enough time. I took my time w him and STILL got hurt. Should I have handled it differently?
Most Helpful Guy
If it were me, sex after 5 months is a long time to wait and I would think you just wanted to be more like friends and I would let you go. I think for whatever your reason for not having sex is fine, but I do think because of not having sex the intimacy, romance and passion can only develop so far. It may not have developed enough for each of you to see this relationship as being something special and worth holding on to.0
Most Helpful Girl
No, you weren't pushy at all.
He was trying to string you along.0