Why do people do this? Is it because they really want to leave and just want a convienient excuse? Or are they spoiled brats trying to get their way? Have you dealt with this if so what did you do?
Most Helpful Guy
I have and smile wave, see ya. I'm not going to chase her (in my situation) I am not going sit up there and go broke or go out of my way for her to get what she want, especially since she don't return the favor.
The root of it all is there mentality. They either refuse to grow up or are stuck on stupid. After that you have to take a look at there maturity level. It speaks for itself when situation like this comes up. What do is try to tell them that this ain't cool. Give them a chance to change there ways. Since we're adults I'll give them a choice. Change there ways or you leave me now. If chose the 1st one. Okay then you got less than a week. If its second one. BYE!! Get over it after a week and that's that.0
Most Helpful Girl
I would respond with something along the lines like "Alrighty, let me make it easier for you. We're done."
Threatening to break up for simply not getting what you want is pure manipulation. You are right when you suggest that the person is just trying to get their way by toying with someone else's feelings. I won't tolerate that. It will create an unhealthy, uncomfortable relationship and slowly deteriorate a nourishing dynamic. I'd rather have no relationship at all than have a relationship like that. Maybe when they're ready to stop playing games, I'll consider giving it another try.1