He ended it several months ago. He wanted to stay friends but I refused, saying that I needed time away from him. Two weeks later, he texted me asking if I wanted to hang out. I refused, using the same excuse as before. He texted me again a week after, asking the same thing to which he got the same answer. He got upset and started talking trash on me. During the time I was away from him, I met someone else I absolutely loved. I showed us off so my ex would get the message, but he became even more clingier. After spring, he moved back home so I was finally at peace. But during summer, he texted me again.. asking where I were, with whom and what I was doing. I told him I was gone on the east coast. I wrote him short, vague answers so he'd get that I didn't want him to know anything about me or even think that I was happy to talk to him. After that, I didn't hear of him for a month. He texted again last week to ask me the same things. I had erased his number and unfriended him from Facebook, so I didn't know who that was. He first texted but I pretended to be someone else, inferring that I had changed my number. And my ex started talking trash on me! He said that I was a liar and that i "pretended to have a great life so everyone who's dumb enough to believe me would think I was super cool". It really hurt me! He even tried to message me on Facebook the day after to again ask me the same dam thing! I blocked his number and his Facebook. Why is he being such a jerk? why does he need to do that and try to hurt me? I haven't done anything wrong but trying to stay away from him..! Even if he hates me, why does he need to contact me and know about my life? I'm probably gonna see him again cause we go to the same school... And meeting him is the last thing on earth I wanna do!
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ex's can become your worst enemy due to the pain they feel once they realise what they have lost, and for it to become apparent that your actually getting on with your life without them, often fills them with hate and the obvious jealousy, so just ignore every effort he makes to get in touch, this way your not fuelling his hate and jealousy, and eventually, he will go away and let you live your new life without him, Phew" lol, good luck, x1