There was a security threat at my work and he messaged to make sure i was okay. I thought that was really nice just in itself. That he thought to care about me when i could possibly have been blown up. Anyway we got to talking and i asked if he was going to his family for Christmas and his girlfriends for dinner. He told me that they had broken up 2 month ago. I was shocked as things had been going so well for them
Why the hell are you telling me all of this i dont fricken care about your girlfriend problems mate. just tell me that your working things out. so basically he resurfaced to make sure i was safe and tell me about his girlfriend problems. unbelievable.
Most Helpful Guy
It sounds to me like he clearly doesn't know what the hell he wants. He keeps sending you mixed signals, popping in & out of your life when it's convenient for him, giving ultimatums. You deserve better. It sounds like you have grown since the breakup & that's great. You've tried to be friends, but I'm well aware how difficult that is to do. (My ex contacted me a couple weeks ago & wants to be friends). If I were you, I would wish this man well, & cut all ties with him... no phone calls, texts, or social media. Use this time for improving yourself & taking care of yourself in every way possible. Continuing to have contact with this man is causing you undo stress & preventing you from really moving forward. I wish you the best!
Most Helpful Girl
He's trying to get your attention. You have kept your head held high and now he's telling you he's ignoring you. Can you hear him? He's telling you he's ignoring you. The only way he can tell you he's ignoring you is to get your attention! He's telling you if you contact him he's going to ignore you. In other words he's telling you to contact him so he can ignore you and regain some of that power you greedily keep to yourself! Haha, keep your head held high. He'll be back...