I'm newly bisexual and I've been dating my first girlfriend for a few months now, but last week when I was staying over at her place and while we were in the bedroom she asked me if we could play a game. I was reluctant to at first because she wouldn't tell me what she meant by a game, but after some pestering and sweet behaviour I gave in and agreed to it. Then she pulled out some handcuffs and said she wanted to tie me up, I was even less keen now that I knew what she wanted but I had already agreed to it so I let her tie me to the bed. Once I was tied to the bed she told me to close my eyes for a surprise, when I did she shoved her knickers into my mouth and covered it with tape so I couldn't spit them out. I tried to yell at her to untie me but her response was "don't be such a spoilt sport, you did agree to this after all", I did agree to play her game but I wouldn't of if I knew what she meant. Now I don t know if I can trust her anymore, I feel used and now she wants to do more things like that which I don t want to. She says it was just a game and I'm making a big deal out of it, but I don t know what to do now am I making a big deal about it?
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She DID use you. I would not trust her either. She pursued her pleasure at the expense of your feeling unsafe. You are making a big deal of it because it is a BIG DEAL.0