I have been going out with this guy for a couple of weeks now and he is amazing and I really like him but it just isn't working for me. I don't think I should have said yes to him in the first place I just felt mean saying no as he's asked me out before and there was no reason to say no to him as he is really nice, but now I am stuck one of the main reasons I went out with him was that I didn't want to be mean and I hoped it would work out, but it hasn't and now I feel even worse as in some ways I have sort led him on. I know I should have just said no to begin with but I didn't and can't change that now so can you please tell me how to end it nicely so that I don't end up hurting him.
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wow that's tough...Ive been on the receiving end of this situation. the reality is that break ups suck, no matter what the reasons are. Personally I prefer honesty. It might hurt his feeling in the moment, but then after a while he might appreciate the fact that you cared enough about him to be honest. Don't lie, and don't be vague about your reasons. there's nothing worse than trying to figure out why someone broke up with you in the first place. We are all human and make mistakes, there's no shame in admitting when you are wrong about something... hope this helps good luck! ;)0