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Woah, That sounds really complicated buddy. It sounds to me like she's exactly where she wants to be. She has her husband as a provider and you who covers everything else. She's playing you man... maybe she does still love you but if that was so since you are the father of her kids, she should go to be with you without thinking twice. You got 2 options here. Sit tight, like she says waiting around to see if she eventually leaves her comfortable life to pursue a previous failed marriage with you. While you quietly share her physically and emotionally with another man. OOORR... talk to her. Tell her that respect her choice of seeing how things play out in her marriage but let her know that you can't put your life on hold for her if she won't do it for you. A relationship is supposed to be 50/50. If she doesn't wanna fully commit that 50 then it is only natural that you look for someone else to invest it in. It is completely ludicrous that she goes off on you for dating when YOU ARE SINGLE. Distance yourself some, become occasionally unavailable and refuse to give away details of what you were doing. She goes crazy at the thought of her options narrowing down, you gotta recognize that. If you put boundaries on her (as much as you lover her and want her leave her hubby) she'll do 1 of 2 things. Dump you completely and stay with her husband, or itll drive her so jealous and hurt that you are moving on that shell jump fully on your ship before it full deploys. Just dont cave and give her what she wants. Be a man, show her that you are ready to move on, WITH OR WITHOUT HER. Good luck!