Looking back, I did so much for my ex. I loved her more than she could ever love me and I gave her everything. This is embarrassing, but a couple years ago I made her a "secret box" with the pull string and everything just like on spongebob 😂. It was monogrammed and it had a heartfelt poem in the secret compartment. I wish I could take it back (being the dumpee and I was basically cheated on).
But seriously, you may think that your ex deserved everything you gave him or her in the past, but what do you think now?
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Yeah, there are a few ex's who I have bent over backwards then over and backwards constantly to prove my love for them and guess what, they took advantage of me because I was being too convient for them.
Its just my personality to love so hard but it doesn't discourage me. when one door closes close , another one opens. I believe karma has its way of dealing with people, even those who hurt me and abuse me , I hold no grudges but I know that it will catch up to them; I just hope it will show them mercy.
So think of it as a manner to strengthen your core as a person =]1