On Wednesday, he told me he no longer had feelings for me & probably never would again. He said he was surprised to hear that I still had feelings for him, and that it took him a long time to get over me, but now he had no doubts that he was.
The next day, I sent him a long, heartfelt letter about why I needed to delete everyhting that reminded me of him (messages, number, EVERYTHING) and move on.
Is this pathetic?
Most Helpful Guy
Maybe not pathetic but it won't give you what you want which is to make him feel bad. He doesn't care2
Most Helpful Girl
I've done this in the past. No I don't think this is pathetic. Even if he doesn't feel the same way it is like a huge weight has been lifted.
You have let everything out, thrown all your cards out on the table. Even if he rejects you there is no question of what could have been and that gives you the closure to let go. I think it's healthy.0