Okay - so I'm clearly not over him. It's a situation like where I don't want a relationship with him (yet) but I also don't want him to be with anyone else.
Most Helpful Guy
Lol I'd think you hated me. Be nice to him even if nothing happens. If you don't want him to be with anyone else, you want him. Don't try to fool yourself to make it simpler. It'll just confuse your feelings in the long run. Feelings get confused. If you want him, be honest and go for it. If you don't, be honest and go for wherever you do want.
Most Helpful Girl
I've had a friend with benefits. I too started having stronger feelings for him but he screwed me over. He got me pregnant and he completely ignored me when I told him so.
It pissed me off because he would make me feel bad by saying I wasn't being a good friend if I didn't delete the video of him playing with his cat... but yet I reveal to him I'm pregnant absolutely nothing. I sent him one last message basically telling him to go and fuck himself and deleted him. What pisses me off most is he doesn't even care enough to be in our childs life, I don't much care about him being in my life.
Best option: just get over him and find someone new.