Should I tell him what's going on, or only if I get a positive?
I am so tempted to tell him, but only because it would scare the sh*t out of him. Really it's me being petty and selfish.
Most Helpful Guy
Nothing wrong with being petty and selfish from time to time. If you want to fuck with him a bit I guess you could tell him now. But just think of how much more of a shock it would be if you get tested positive and then tell him.
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think you should tell him unless you're sure. I know scaring the shit out of him would be fun but honestly you should completely eliminate contact with him anyway and anything that makes you contact him again is totally not conducive to moving on.