Most Helpful Guy
From your description of events, he has a very self-centered view of things. The first time you told him he couldn't be bothered, and now that he misses you (especially if you were providing him services he still needs but no longer has access to) then suddenly he has this realization of how important you are to him. Removed photos off of facebook? What a drama queen! They are still apart of his life, a documentation of the way things were. Why be ashamed?
Even when I was 18 I knew what a girl meant to me enough to tell her breaking up was a bad idea or a good idea when it came up. Is he really that mature? How old is this guy?
I think you may be better served letting this fish back into the sea and getting another guy.
Most Helpful Girl
It does seem like he cared. You seem needy and controlling. What was he taking for granted?