When he broke up he gave me some excuse about us not working out, but I know now he was already flirting with this woman, he just didn't tell me.
When I realized that I went into NC.
Since I went NC he is trying to contact me (I blocked him) and wrote a huge letter about how everything is my fault, but that he wants to be friends. I ignored.
Today again he texts my mother to tell her my clothes are ready to go pick up and he expects me to contact him. He should not want contact with me, he should be happy I let him live his life with his new chick... So why insisting? Is it remorse? Loss of control? Regret... ?
Most Helpful Guy
Probably all of those things, but he may not be with that new girl anymore. My advice is to get a surrogate to get your stuff. After that, you are severed from him and should avoid contact. Frankly, you dodged a bullet; better to cheat and dump you before marriage than cheat after marriage. This guy needs to grow up.
If we insists on only delivering your stuff to you instead of a surrogate, tell him you will contact the poluce. I said that and, lo and behold, I got my stuff back ASAP.
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Most Helpful Girl
Clearly he's not in control. Men are like that (unfortunately ). Had you of not done what you have done it probably would of been the other way around. If I were you I'd dress up look extra hot and post hot pics of me so he can see. Unblock then message this:
Hi (name), I hope all is well over your end. I understand I still have some of my personal belongings with you. My apologies for the inconvenience. If you could kindly send them by cab to this address and I will get the rest sorted. Once again, thank you and wishing you the best.
Tried and tested... Drives them mad lol