If a couple announce they are expecting a baby, is it a sign that their relationship is happy and healthy?
If they are in their late 20s, living together for 3 years, been together for 8 years...
Are they going to be together forever?
Most Helpful Guy
Oy vey... Where do I start?
That's a common misconception, the idea that having a kid will make a couple grow closer together. In reality, having one or more kids puts a huge amount of strain on the relationship. If it wasn't strong before, it doesn't stand a chance after one or more kids are involved. Some couples use the kids as an excuse to stay together, even though they can't stand each other. Then the kids grow up with a warped view of what a healthy relationship is because their only role models are parents who can't stand to be in the same room together.
Most Helpful Girl
The only thing that's destined Is death.
No one here can predict if a couple if going to stay together or not.
There are people married for 30 years, that are getting divorced.
Whether you and your boyfriend stay together or not has to do with the strength of your relationship (are you both willing to make things work?), is there a significant amount of feelings there? Those are important factors.
A man can love his baby but that doesn't mean he will stay.
A baby is separate from the Mother.
If doesn't have any care for her, he simply won't be there for her and only for his child.