(i) You still miss the feelings and memories your ex had with you
(ii) You've tried dating others, but nothing works
(iii) You're single and your ex is single
(iv) You and your ex are in no contact through the years
(v) the flights cost approximately USD1,500.00 return
Do comment if you have your reasons!
- Yes, go see the ex
- No, don't bother
Most Helpful Girl
If you haven't had any contact, I wouldn't just show up. Imagine it was you - you've come home from a long day at work, or maybe even a bad date, and your ex you haven't spoken to, maybe even thought about in years, is on your doorstep. The one thing you want to do is crash. And suddenly, you're being made to put your best face on again. It's not fair to expect someone to clear their diary just because you did. It's a lot of money for a potentially waste of time.
If you really want to have a shot again, you need to get in contact via the usual methods - email, text, call, social media, whatever. Just because you feel this way you can't be 100% sure they feel the same.