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That's natural. That being said I think keeping track and thinking about am ex or someone you dated and were close to in the past is counterproductive and unhealthy regardless of they're single or not. I mean it depends on how it ended I guess, but for example my closest to a relationship, I ended up getting used as a rebound which fucked me up big time and honestly thinking about her and wondering about her even if she was single just made me angry and jealous. I also had some anger issues and said some very nasty and hateful things about her, even though she fucked me over. But the problem is, the anger consumed me. Even if I had dates with other girls afterwards.