my ex for almost 6 years cheated on me since July, and I did not know till Late September. Late September, she admitted cheating and dumped me. She said she still wish we can be friend after. We still talk nowadays.
after broken up, I went into her email and browsing history. I just found out lots of her dirty secrets. One thing Is that she's out of school... and not going well for the last school year which is a big no to my family. She's still an international student.
I was sad and crying for three weeks straight. I know so does she. I try to think of she think she does not deserve me cuz of school work that made her breaking up with me. That way I don't hate her as much.
Still, I wanted to revenge for cheating by telling her reveal all her dirty secret to her parents. At some degree that's for my revenge and for her own goods.
Should we still be friends? And should I tell her parents?
Most Helpful Girl
Don't be friends and don't be so petty as to take revenge. Just end things cleanly and walk away, its the mature thing to do. If you take revenge then this will drag out, she'll get back at you and it will just go on and on.
Walk away and move on, that's the best revenge anyone can give a cheater. have a better life without them.1
Most Helpful Guy
1. She cheated on you and you are talking about being her friend? Do you have ANY self-respect?
2. How does it benefit you to tell her parents? Revenge is a very costly dessert. You become a bad person every time you seek revenge. Tell yourself that you are a better person, and then behave as if you are a better person. You will become. . . a better person!0