Wasn't the best break up, he dumped me after an argument when I went round his house. I got upset and apologised but he was having none of it, we went out for 2 years and were pretty serious. Yet he was so blunt with saying it was over, I asked for a hug because I said it would be the last time he sees me cuz even though he hoped we could remani friends, I just couldnt be friends with him. He said No and "you will see me again cuz you gotta give back my iPad." when he got inside within 10 minutes he had deleted our relationship off facebook, all our pictures, happy memories together including statuses and joined a dating website. This made me hate him so much I just deleted him off facebook completely and haven't spoke to him since. I do feel bad that I have his brand new ipad he got for work though and wondered if I should message him asking to give it back or just wait for him. I dont wanna feel like a greedy bitch but part of me hopes we can get back together when I give it back cuz despite all the shit I still love him.
Most Helpful Guy
you're asking if it is wrong to keep something that doesn't belong to you?
come on you learned this lesson in elementary school. be mature and give him his property back. don't use it as a tool, thinking you can get back together with him. in fact you keeping it will probably only serve to reinforce his feelings that he shouldn't be with you because you are acting unethically0
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Most Helpful Girl
It's awful that someone chose to throw a two year relationship down the drain because of an argument. I can understand that you're crushed especially since he's on the prowl for hookups. As cliche as it sounds, things happen for a reason. If he had really was committed, he wouldn't have deleted all your memories as if two years meant nothing. Perhaps it's your time to find someone who loves you unconditionally and isn't quick to pull the plug. Regardless, continue being a decent person and give him back his iPad. Yes, keeping it might seem like revenge but it doesn't make you better. Don't stoop to his level. Mail it back and don't look back.0