He wants me in his life, but he doesn't want a relationship right now. He says that he loves me and he cares a lot about me, but he's emotionally unavailable. Recently he's stopped telling me how he feels about me and it's been driving me up the wall. I keep trying to get answers out of him and he ignores me. Last week I wanted to know why he won't talk to me and he said, "I'm focused on other things" that was the only question he answered that night. Every question that I asked him he never said no to or yes to either so I'm lost. What's the point in being in his life if he completely ignores me and doesn't initiate contact? He did on Monday after I quit texting after he said what he said last week. I'm really lost and confused here.
What does it mean when your ex wants you to be in his life?
What Guys Said 1
If you are still in his life and doing things for him like you used to, basically you are fulfilling what he is wanting in a relationship without the commitment. If you are giving more than he is, thats not a good thing. Best bet if he wants you in his life is to back off for awhile, he may realize the difference without you there. If you do a lot for him and he does not reciprocate, he is taking you for granted. even in a friendship things should be mutual, a give-give thing.0
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What Girls Said 1
tell him to fuck off and move on!!0
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