We cut contact a year ago. I've done everything I could to stay busy and keep my mind occupied. It's been my most productive year. hadn't thought of her in a while. But the thing is, I just started talking with a woman last week. I should be excited, we have similar interests, she's attractive, independent, sincere. But every time we get done texting I have a wave of sadness creep over me. It hits me how much I miss her, how badly I still care? I honestly thought I was past that.
I also feel a bit of guilt for continuing to purse a woman that I don't feel a spark for. We compatible so I was hoping my interest in her will grow. But the thought of possibly stringing someone along so I can heal bothers me.
Any and all advice welcome?
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe you feel sad because a part of you knows you're finally taking a concrete step towards truly moving on from her. It's perfectly fine to miss someone who impacted you so strongly. Give this new person a chance, the sadness will lessen.1
Most Helpful Guy
try to find someone else maybe? tell her? can't really help ya. been there, done that. same thing happened to me too. fell in love with my best girl friend since freshman year of college. she transferred to florida from our school in north carolina and took me FOREVER to get over her. she showed up for graduation and we hung out and i was back to square 1. still haven't told her i like her.0