So I woke up to a text from my now EX girlfriend of almost 2 years that fucking crushed me. Told be we should "go our separate ways" and all that. I gotta say I'm so furious because she wasn't even woman enough to tell to my face. It really made me lose all respect for her. Makes it worse is their wasn't much explanation behind it, all I really got was "the pain is too much" and "the distance between us is too much" keep in mind distance really isn't a issue she's 45-50 minutes away driving and she has a car but yeah I guess lol. Texts me telling me this isn't easy for her to do but yet if your doing this over a text. Seems awfully easy to me just my 2 cents though.
So I've got a bunch of mixed emotions but the one that's really showing through is anger and the feeling of been truly hurt by someone.
We were going through a rough patch happened before on some minor things but we'd always get through regardless.
Im just so disgusted with her actions and how she handled it. I think she's a complete coward for it.
Am I wrong? 😕
- is she worth any more effort?Vote A
- Or should I let this girl crash burn and let karma do the rest?Vote B
Most Helpful Girl
She is a complete coward. And after two years, to not have a real explanation? No way. That's just rude, and there's got to be more to this story. You need to meet with her in person no matter how hard that will be for you, tell her she owes you at the very least a reason. And let her know you do not deserve to be disrespected like that over text. If you've gotten through rough times before though, and if there's any reason you want to still be with her after her actions, you have to give it a chance. Two years is a long time to invest in a relationship so she obviously means a lot to you... best of luck to you.0
Most Helpful Guy
I got dumped by the same girl 3 different ways. The first she called me. I said okay and hung up. She ended up calling me a few days later to try and fix it. It hurt but I was more disoriented than anything. The second time it was in person. I had to fight back tears as I drove her home. The third time it was by text. I hurt but after awhile I felt pretty okay. Long story short getting dumped hurts no matter how it's done. People always want to believe that doing it in person is best but really it isn't always. I mean if they wanna break up they wanna break up. When she did it in person she was stumbling through words tryna make stuff okay and all I felt was "what the f are you talking about" over text I really didn't even care much about her reasoning by comparison to the other times it was a relief. I didn't feel like I was being attacked for something I didn't even know I was doing. I didn't feel patronized by her bull crap excuses. I just felt like welp it's over, feel bad, and keep trucking I guess. People always think a phone call or an in person dialog is better because its courteous or may help change the outcome of something but in my opinion if you're breaking up with me it's because there's something wrong that probably can't get fixed or you aren't comfortable enough to talk to me about fixing it so it's probably the best decision to just cut ties. How it happens doesn't matter much to me anymore. I mean what was really gonna happen in person other than both of you feeling like shit and still breaking up.0