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Most Helpful Guy
You have to use paragraphs and condense man, this is diarrhea of words.
What i got out of it... you broke up and still see your ex?
Stop interacting with your ex, it's still too soon for the two of you to see each other since emotions are still involved and this only slows down the process... it's very easy to fall back into the swing of things.
Think about it, what if you quit meth... however you hung out with meth users all the time and it was always around you? You'd never be able to move on.
Most Helpful Girl
Hmmm... I feel like I'm listening to myself a year ago. Well, all you have to do is cut all contact and not talk nor see him anymore. Next time your friends ask to hang out, ask if he's gonna be there. And if he is, don't go. It's normal to mourn when you break up, it's normal to want to hurt the other because we're hurting. What you should do is not showing how you feel to HIM. He doesn't need to know you're sad, it's obvious! Just live your life happily and do what you have to do ad do it efficiently. It's gonna be hard, but it's gonna come. I thought it only took me 2 months to get over him, but it actually took me 8. I am finally over him and don't think about him as much as before. He still has that "special" place in my life/story, but he's from the past and he has to stay there. He tried coming back with me more than once, but I refused. I'm one of those "you have 1 shot" people. I'll give you a chance to convince me about something (here, a relationship and my heart), but if you mess up, you're out. That's what you should do. People, even as friends, will work harder to "earn" you. You don't hve to feel bad because someone is unable to see your worth.