This was some months ago. We were together for 4 years and everything seemed great, until one day out of the blue he said he doesn't want a relationship anymore and dumped me. It wasn't anyone else, he really just wanted to be care free and single. Well, he then BEGGED me to stay friends. I said ok and we did kept contact for awhile, it was a nice closure can't complain. Then he just disappeared few weeks ago. I finished my Ph'D few days ago and I posted it on FB and he saw it and didn't even congratulate me. He is not seeing anyone I know that much. Our mutual friend told him about my Ph'd and he just said "oh that's great". I feel like shit because not so long ago I was there for him when he had some problems. Now he doesn't even want to talk to me. I wrote him few days ago and he just said "I gotta go". I feel worthless to him. And ashamed that I even reached out or thought that maybe we could be friends. Well, what a friend...
Most Helpful Guy
sorry for what you've been through. It's hard to turn the relationship into friendship because one of the two parties still have a deep feelings for another person, and the reaction is ignoring from other side. I understand it's hurt, but Don't blame yourself for what a happened. life is constantly changing around us and also people. Don't be
ashamed that you're a good person (Jewel is not ashamed of the intensity of its luster).
don't change and be as you like... and congratulations for PhD
Most Helpful Girl
told him goodbye and disappeared0