Let's call this couple "Couple A"... one of my friends and her husband had a baby 2 weeks ago and they are so happy and calm... All 3 of them r settling so well... I just do see how a baby causes stress?
they are Christians tho and married so maybe that makes them stronger than the next couple?
Couple B on the other hand, Seem to have grown apart a bit... Cos they got together at 21 and are now 30... They are now going to have a baby...
im pretty sure it was her idea and he is just going along with it... Will the baby relieve the boredom and stagnancy?
They have been Together for 8 years, living together for 3 years... But They look miserable together but now she is pregnant... What's gonna happen?
will it work? Will he stay with her cos he will he so in love with his baby?
could the baby make them happier and complete as a family?
Most Helpful Guy
A baby will not make you happier with your partner. The novelty of a baby in the house will relieve boredom for a short while, but the demands of a baby will cause frustration. Waking up every 2 hours blows! Everything in your life changes because you have a baby. You can't just go dancing tonight on a whim; you must plan everything because you need a babysitter. Babies do not save bad relationships.
More importantly, you don't have a baby because of what they can do for you! You have a baby because of what you can do for the baby!0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Babies dont fix always fix relationships bit it does depend on the people. My friends boyfriend used to beat her up and was always out drinking she fell preg and he's never hit her since and doesn't even go out he's like a completely diff person he works and provides for his family and they are now expecting their 2nd.
I however had a great guy who was really happy about being a family was great in the preg and after but by time our baby was 6 half months all he did was go out drinking after work and sleep and since we split he's even worse and hardly bothers see his son but acts like dad of the year on fb
I think if they have grown apart a baby will push it further because its very stressful time0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE