I have a friend who was in an unhappy marriage, and met a guy who convinced her to have an affair. He confessed he fell in love with her and over time she fell for him too. A few months in, her husband found out and the guy freaked out bailed. Since then she has found out he lied about many things, and wonders if he ever really loved her. Now she is heartbroken, angry, and depressed as she is in the middle of a divorce and also lost this other guy. It seems really unfair that she is going through all this and he walks away and lives his life as though nothing happened when he was partially responsible. What can I do to help give this guy some payback? I wish I could expose him for the scumbag he is.
Yes, I know she did wrong too; please refrain from putting her down. Trust me she is going through a lot herself.
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I'm sorry what happened to your friend. You need to focus on the positive and get your friend to work out though all her issues though the divorce. Stop thinking about the guy who helped her cheat and focus on helping your friend though this really difficult time. I know you want to get this guy back, and trust me I've felt my fair share of revenge, but no matter what you do to this guy, it won't fix your friends marriage, it won't change him, and you'll still feel bad about the whole situation, possibly feeling worse that you invested so much time in someone who doesn't deserve the effort. Please, help your friend. Divorce is terrible so offer your friend that support.0