Like who the f are you to make sure I'm okay! He broke up with me 8 months ago and from time to time he would ask me how I am or would text me something stupid, but when I do that he ignores or refuses to hang out. It's so obvious that he doesn't want to do anything with me but just feels quilty and wants to actually make sure that I don't hate him and that the I'm now totally fine. I told him when we broke up that I don't want a fake ass friendship, that I will be fine and happy without him and that I don't hate him and I wished him happy life. He said it's not one of those friendships that you just say it, but it's obvious that it is. If he really wanted my company he wouldn't reject it so many times by now. Hell I'm sure if I called him now to play an x-box game he would refuse, like always. There are so many exes who are like that and I'm sick of it. Either we're friends or we're nothing, make up your goddamn mind! AAAAAA! Sorry :D
Most Helpful Guy
Here it is... Some people can't stand being not liked...
It's hard to let go of an ex on good terms, a little confusing, especially when you leave as "friends".
Its like... A part of him is still connected to you, and he thinks about you, from time to time... A part of you in his mind is "his" ... Though he knows its not right, and you'll eventually end up with someone else... He can't help but care.
The reason he keeps you at arms length... He knows the more time you spend together; it increases the likelihood one or both of you may again develop feelings.
I don't know the reasons why are the terms of your break up... But my impression is that you both loved each other but, towards the end, something happened... a falling away of some sort... Am I wrong?0
Most Helpful Girl
I like it, it means he still cares.0