I'm usually an emotional person, and I feel numb and still in shock about it. I never got closure and the answers I needed; And we haven't been in contact in a month. The last time he texted me, he told me he didn't care about the relationship anymore and felt sometimes he had to force himself for the sake of not hurting me. But he always used to say he could never see himself leaving me and he will always love me more than anything in the world. Now he says I deserve better. but that's still not an explanation. Even if I still have some feelings for him, I still don't see myself getting back with him. How could I ever trust him again? I know my worth. But I still dream bout him and he's always on my mind. Sometimes It's hard for me to even get out of bed. So why can't I cry over it?
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I think it's because you don't have closure like you said. He never really gave you an explanation so you don't have anything to be upset about. I know, the break up should be enough, but sometimes you just become kind of numb. It took me a little while to become upset over my last breakup. Then I woke up, and it hit me like a truck. I think it's important for you to get that closure. Set up a time and place to meet and talk privately. Make sure you know what you want to say, and know what you want to know. This is isn't supposed to turn into an argument, this to put the nail in the coffin. It's eating away at you, but you aren't manifesting it through crying. Every breakup will be different Being hurt for a little while, is better than not knowing for the rest of your life. The most important thing to remember is to not let it consume you, that's the most hurtful thing you can do to yourself right now.0
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