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LDR is One of the Hardest to Have and to Hold of any here, dear, and I, for One, can tell you First hand all about it.
Nearly 5 years ago, a man from Egypt had found me on Fb and we had started a whirlwind romance by chance. After getting to know him and his lovely family better, I then flew off to the magical land of Cairo where I stayed for 30 days. After returning home, I then flew back over, and we ended up tying the knot at the Ministry of Justice. I remained there awhile, learning how to be a Muslim's wife and with many Time... Strife.
I am back in the states now, and with Many ups and downs, Breakups and Makeups, we fought to Keep our marriage and relationship together like two birds of a feather, that found us those hard Times... Not sticking together. I blame myself a lot for this. I ended up cheating on him, thinking the grass was going to be greener on the other side of the female fence for in the end, I ruined a lot of things with him and the family.
Because now especially the Middle East is so bad, I have not gone back over. However, he has begged me to come and live with him and try and make a go of it, even though it is difficult on my own end to get him here.
You and your own friend are a stone's throw away, I say, and at least Not half way around the world. But what I see is him Not really into the LDR and perhaps if someday, one day, the time was right and you Both were available and you were able to 'Meet again' under other Better circumstances, it would tell you then That... It would be meant to be.
He probably figured that '15 hours' was along ways away, but my own husband Never gave up with the idea that we were A... Stone's throw away or Two hearts that would never Break away.
It takes two special people to be in this kind of relationship... There is always one who is the hero and the other who is a quitter.
Move on and focus on you now. If he misses you enough and cares enough about you, he will be back.
Good luck. xx0
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