So these days I've been talking to my ex and I got the feeling that he's flirting with me. Actually he started the conversation with me when he saw that I'm hanging out with Toni now (they hate eachother) And well, Last night me and my ex ran into each other at a party and he wanted to hang out and stuff but i totally ignored him... he wasn't okay with that so he wrote me something and then said that they're (he and his friends) at damon's house (his best friend) and that I should come over, though I didn't go of course. But that's not all.. he said something that offended me and pissed me off. So the thing is that I texted him ''You break up with your girlfriend and then think that you can just get me back so easily. Well not gonna happen.'' (he and his girlfriend broke up recently) and he was like ''hahahahha whatt?'' and I wrote back ''you heard me'' and he said ''Wait you think I'm flirting with you hahahahahah'' I find that really offensive because it looks now like I'm the crazy one and that I'm imagining things that aren't really there... and I really got the feeling that he was flirting.. he was staring at me all the time and when I was fighting with a guy (who is simply my friend) he couldn't look away. + Here's the Toni jealousy situation.. He confesed to me that he still cares about me, but now this? I have a feeling like he said that just because he didn't know what to say and didn't want to turn out like a fool. At the end of the day he did call me to hang out with them probably 10 times last night, but I just ignored him and continued to have fun with my friends. But I could be wrong. Maybe he was just joking around with me? Everything is weird here and I'm sooo confused, please help me.
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He's being petty. He doesn't know how to deal with not being with you anymore so he resorts to being a child. Stop all communication with him. If you find yourself in a situation where you can't avoid it, just be civil. There's no reason to start arguing, you won't gain anything from it. All you'd be doing is feeding his drive. He'd rather be arguing with you than nothing at all because he'll be an active participant in your life. I was a little like him once upon a time. Be the bigger person and let sleeping dogs lie.1