- Guys are only cold if they aren't quite over you
- They're cold because they hate you
- It's because of mixed emotions/hurt
- They like you still but are hurt/angry etc
- It's down to immaturity
Why are guys so cold after break ups?
What Guys Said 16
You can't boil this down to one particular reason. Every scenario is different. One reason could be if he's moved on and is not wanting to treat the female too nice like they are in a relationship so there won't be mix signals. Especially if she still has strong feelings for him1
Depends, if you brushed them off, they are just showing self respect.
If they brushed you off, they just don't care1
Nothing stabs as deeply as the rejection of a lover.1
If it's the girl breaking up with him: A), they want to hate you but can't, hating you would be easier probably, C), and D)
If the guy is the one doing the break up: B) and E)1
It depends, but a lot of the time it's based on their immaturity. They haven't grown up yet.1
My ex girlfriend won't even make eye contact with me.. lol.. so I suppose same reason girls are cold? Hurt I guess.. or playing cool like you don't matter0
because theyre smart.
ex means ex communicated. you seem to want him around thats why. nothing good comes from exes hanging around after.0
Because you have more or less told them you don't think they are good enough to be with you...0
You pissed them off royally - what do you expect?0
He's cold because he hates you. Also because chicks are dumb enough to care about what a guy is like after the break up.0
Depends. None of your poll options quite get it.
But answer this: why should they be "warm" to you?0
What Girls Said 6
Because they know many girls will interpret them simply being friendly towards her as him wanting to get back together.1
It has been about 6 months since my boyfriend broke up with me, and I haven't spoken to him in a couple months or so. Last time I tried contacting him he never responded SO I just left it. Sometimes guys just want you out of their life to keep you off their mind I suppose, unless they have some bitterness towards you?0
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